Help is the hardest thing to ask.

Help, I need somebody, something, some way out of here.

Is "Can you help me?" The hardest question to ask?

Is this another reason to believe that The Beatles were divinely inspired because their first movie was HELP?

As I peruse an alphabet anchor, a way to remember meanings from the alphabet, I am searching out charge words.

My criteria is what motivates me.

Motivates towards or motivates away?

Going down the alphabet to H, I was motivated to move away, “I mean I don’t need any HELP, I can do it myself.”

There is a charge in asking for help, so H is for help in my New ABC’s.

I have some counter productive beliefs around this word.

Beliefs I sure don’t want any grandchildren to catch, or maybe they will catch them and it will be an opportunity, as my wise fisherman son practices, to Help with “Catch & Release.”

Here are some beliefs about HELP:

The ego believes it has to be right, so there is no space to ask for help.
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Only weaklings ask for help. The Fonz or John Wayne never asked for help.
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If you ask someone for help you have to listen and do what they tell you, and I don’t want anyone telling me what to do.
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If I ask for help then people will know I don’t know, then they might think I am not invincible.
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Help is humbling; a more graceful word that I could have chosen to let me off this helpless treadmill and not have to explore my own helpless beliefs.
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Think of all the excuses and blame I’d have to give up if I asked for help.
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Being an adult, especially an elder, means never having to ask for help.

That’s a bunch of indoctrinated, self-defeating beliefs that keeps attention stuck, outcomes limited, and leaving me to continue to create from trial and error.

Lots of errors or even worse, lots of giving up.

So I would like your help.

Business is going well and it’s important for you to know I have time for you, your friends and family members. If you would like to refer your family members. I can help free fixed attention, create entertaining content and help you find your way

For the grandchildren of the world, ask for help, it’s as easy as pushing the F1 key on a PC.

But REMEMBER to ask nice.

Grandpa

Gary